Day to day at the office, especially where a formal workplace dress code applies, cufflinks should support a professional image. Small, plain designs in silver or steel work best, without large stones or novelty shapes. They show for a moment when you shake hands or reach for a document, and that is enough.
At a wedding or a family celebration the whole outfit is usually more considered, so cufflinks can be more expressive: enamel, a stone or an interesting texture. It is a good idea to echo one element, such as the colour of your tie or pocket square, but only one. Cufflinks matched to the tie, the pocket square and the cloth pattern all at once look overdone.
Black tie has rules of its own. A dinner suit calls for an evening shirt, such as the white dress shirt with a bib front and black buttons, which has cuffs for cufflinks. The cufflinks should be elegant and understated: plain metal, or a black stone that repeats the colour of the buttons. That shirt belongs only with a dinner suit and evening wear, never with an office suit. For more on what this dress code requires, see our article on the rules of black tie.
| Feature | Minimalist cufflinks | Decorative cufflinks |
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| Best occasions | Office, client meetings, conferences | Weddings, family celebrations, evenings out |
| Risk of overdoing it | Low, restraint comes easily | Higher, easy to overstate the look |
| Matching the tie | Not needed, they are neutral | Worth echoing a colour or detail |
| Impression | Professional, calm, orderly | More personal and festive |